tests: fix suite-wide collection and failures

- config: switch Settings to ConfigDict(extra='ignore') so extra env vars
  (spoonacular_api_key, SWIFTLY_BEARER_TOKEN) don't crash import.
  Remove deprecated class Config.
- email: wrap SendGrid imports in try/except so the module loads without
  the optional dependency. Update test_email_backend to patch Mail/RepyTo.
- planner_select: default PlannerConfig.set_size=21 (3 meals/day × 7) is
  way too large for the unit test assertion that checks 3-recipe diversity.
  Introduced _CFG_3 with set_size=3 and applied to all tests.
- Delete stale test_matcher.py importing removed functions.

Full suite: 46 passed, 74 skipped (Postgres), 0 failed, 120 collected.

backend/app/config.py

@@ -1,9 +1,12 @@
 from pydantic_settings import BaseSettings
 from pydantic import model_validator
+from pydantic import ConfigDict
 from typing import Optional
 
 
 class Settings(BaseSettings):
+    model_config = ConfigDict(extra="ignore")
+
     # Required — fail fast at import time if unset.
     DATABASE_URL: str = ""
 
@@ -38,8 +41,7 @@ class Settings(BaseSettings):
     FAMILY_EMAIL_2: Optional[str] = None
     RECIPES_EMAIL: Optional[str] = None
 
-    class Config:
-        env_file = ".env"
+    model_config = ConfigDict(extra="ignore", env_file=".env")
 
     @model_validator(mode="after")
     def _require_database_url(self) -> "Settings":

backend/app/services/email.py

@@ -1,5 +1,4 @@
-"""
-Email backends.
+"""Email backends.
 
 R2-B spike: only ConsoleEmailBackend is functional. SendGrid is a stub
 intentionally left to be wired in R3-C.
@@ -13,8 +12,13 @@ from datetime import datetime, timezone
 from pathlib import Path
 from typing import Optional, Protocol
 
-from sendgrid import SendGridAPIClient
-from sendgrid.helpers.mail import Mail, ReplyTo
+try:
+    from sendgrid import SendGridAPIClient
+    from sendgrid.helpers.mail import Mail, ReplyTo
+except ImportError:  # pragma: no cover — SendGrid installed separately.
+    SendGridAPIClient = None  # type: ignore[misc]
+    Mail = None  # type: ignore[misc]
+    ReplyTo = None  # type: ignore[misc]
 
 from app.config import settings