feat(auth): harden sessions + HA Ingress support

- backend: settings SESSION_COOKIE_SECURE + TRUSTED_NETWORK_AUTO_AUTH,
  require_session uses secrets.compare_digest and respects trusted-network
  opt-in, main.py adds require_family_session middleware gating all /api/
  routes except auth/admin/email-vote-token paths
- docker-compose: pass SESSION_COOKIE_SECURE + TRUSTED_NETWORK_AUTO_AUTH
  through to backend + scheduler (fixes env-file changes not reaching runtime)
- frontend: Ingress path-prefix support (APP_BASE_PATH, BrowserRouter basename,
  vite base './'), Login redirect honors APP_BASE_PATH
- nginx: no-cache headers on root + /assets/
- docs: Home Assistant Ingress install/troubleshooting + plan file
- tests: test_auth expects 401 on no-session GET

Defaults: SESSION_COOKIE_SECURE=false, TRUSTED_NETWORK_AUTO_AUTH=true
(HA is the auth boundary; MealPlanner must not be port-forwarded directly).

.env.example

@@ -33,3 +33,5 @@ SECRET_KEY=change-me-to-a-random-secret-key
 # Auth
 ADMIN_TOKEN=change-me-to-a-random-admin-token
 SESSION_PASSWORD=change-me-to-the-family-shared-password
+SESSION_COOKIE_SECURE=false
+TRUSTED_NETWORK_AUTO_AUTH=true