feat(auth): harden sessions + HA Ingress support

- backend: settings SESSION_COOKIE_SECURE + TRUSTED_NETWORK_AUTO_AUTH,
  require_session uses secrets.compare_digest and respects trusted-network
  opt-in, main.py adds require_family_session middleware gating all /api/
  routes except auth/admin/email-vote-token paths
- docker-compose: pass SESSION_COOKIE_SECURE + TRUSTED_NETWORK_AUTO_AUTH
  through to backend + scheduler (fixes env-file changes not reaching runtime)
- frontend: Ingress path-prefix support (APP_BASE_PATH, BrowserRouter basename,
  vite base './'), Login redirect honors APP_BASE_PATH
- nginx: no-cache headers on root + /assets/
- docs: Home Assistant Ingress install/troubleshooting + plan file
- tests: test_auth expects 401 on no-session GET

Defaults: SESSION_COOKIE_SECURE=false, TRUSTED_NETWORK_AUTO_AUTH=true
(HA is the auth boundary; MealPlanner must not be port-forwarded directly).

frontend/vite.config.ts

@@ -3,6 +3,7 @@ import react from '@vitejs/plugin-react'
 
 export default defineConfig({
   plugins: [react()],
+  base: './',
   server: {
     port: 3000,
     proxy: {